May 8, the happy topics of bribery and coercion! Don't think blackmail and torture. Go to the very light place in your life, where a young child is being persuaded in such a way that he's not harmed and peace reigns.
In The Big Book of Unschooling, this is presented on pages 217 and 218.
On the webpage, you can read more about bribery here: http://sandradodd.com/bribery
There's nothing in Just Add Light and Stir about these things, because they're not uplifting and cheery!
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