"Empowerment" (pages 223 and 224), links to this page: SandraDodd.com/empowerment
ALSO! Chat transcripts will be gradually filling in (even the older ones) here, soon. The July 31 chat on applying principles to partnerships is there already. It will be edited a bit more (spellings, recombination of a few lines to help those who weren't there to read it more smoothly. http://chattranscripts.blogspot.com/2013/08/partnerships-better-from-principles.html
If you're reading this by e-mail and you need a path to the chatroom, click on the title to get to the blog, which has a tab up to the left with the link and password.